I will always love her, and my heart is very heavy, but the abuse has got to stop.Can you pls help me more about how to deal with a Narcisists adult child..I don’t miss the bullying, I miss the the lost potential. You deserve to live a life of peace. Always lacking in responsibility and extremely entitled, but not even in a nice way, almost always in a demanding way. Either way, I no longer care.I don’t think I’ll ever reach the point of no longer caring. Let us know in the comment section below.All rights reserved. He’s miserable and hates life. It can help exponentially to talk about your feelings and find strength within a group.Eventually, your child will get the message and stop fighting you.Dealing with an adult narcissistic child is painful and difficult. It just is.How does one deal with this behavior when the adult child uses your grand to use against you to get what they want?It’s hard for me to feel sympathy for those that have previously commented. He said some pretty awful things to me that really hurted my heart as his mother but learning about Narcissistic people made the no contact a little easier for me to let go of him. I grew up confused and feeling worthless and having no idea of boundaries. Cannot hold a job. Therapy generally doesn’t work for NPD, especially when they don’t know what they are dealing with and the patient thinks he’s perfect.The last straw for me was when he violently shoved me and made me miscarry! but I I give up with her, i’m not going to fight for her love anymore it hurts to much. They suffer from “narcissistic injury” or vulnerable self-esteem. !I just wanted to say thank you for posting this. I think we are still understanding the brain, personality disorders, genes etc… I believe that NPD is likely like Autism with emotions, processing etc… But people who have it seem to be very high functioning in many areas of their lives. In shock and covered by blood. I remember using this book called teaching your children values and each month we would practice thing like”truth” etc… I brought him to church, went to CCD and taught classes. Cuss calling us name.

No emotion at all. For none of this has he expressed any gratitude. My family doesn’t support me & I feel so scared, lonely & helpless. This is a terrible thing. Narcissism now equates to Psychologists categorize narcissism as a spectrum disorder. She is now 31 with 3 young sons. Stop over-compensating for any joint You child is going to need very clear, consistent and firm boundaries, and needs to learn accountability and the laws of cause and effect. Thanks for reading and if you have any suggestions on moving forward and releasing this pain as a broken mother, I would truly appreciate them.My daughter woke me up text me to call her at 6:00 this morning telling me to call her it when to voice mail, then she text me back with never mind she always does this me way when she wants something. He has to be prompted to hug, he doesn’t think of others, he is obsessed with trains, planes and timetables. I remember my response. The word ‘Narcissus was handsome but loved only himself. Here’s a look at some practical ways to deal with someone who has NPD or narcissistic tendencies — plus some tips for recognizing when it’s time to move on. Every article goes through multiple reviews to ensure this. I’ve tried to get her to go to college, but she isn’t motivated. But she wants me out of the picture. I had a very close relationship with my oldest granddaughter who is now 5. So his roommate is moving out and I am worried.I have a narcissistic son in law.